No maternal instinct/terrified of having kids?
Babies scare me. I know that sounds weird but they do! If someone gives me their baby to hold I totally panic. I can’t stand being around them,I can’t see any beauty in them. I don’t mind toddlers so much because theyre more sturdy and can communicate,but even then being around them makes me uncomfortable.
I have Bipolar Disorder so that makes me worry about ever having a child,I don’t think I’d be very good at coping and I think I’d be a crap mum and end up screwing up the kid! I have a wonderful partner and I would kinda like a kid one day but it terrifies me too much!
Does anyone else feel like this?
I think this is quite a common feeling but that many woman are afraid to admit it because women are expexcted to have a maternal instinct. Its a huge commitment to have kids in terms of your lifestyle and financially and they take over your lifes for the next 20 years. If its the infant phase that causes problems have you considred adopting?
I am not familiar with Bi-polar disorder but I guess that any mental condition would not be helpful in rearing children.
I would say be sure you and your partner really want kids before having them.
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